RetreatBoss Magazine - 002

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in Uncertain Times

Authenticity

Let’s clear up another misconception:

authenticity isn’t about “saying whatever you

want” with no care for how it lands or impacts

others.

The definition of authenticity is when your

words and actions are congruent with your

beliefs and values.

But here’s the kicker: how do you actually

know what you believe?

Most of our foundational beliefs are formed by

the time we’re seven years old. They come from

caregivers, culture and early experiences. Most

of us never pause to re-evaluate the beliefs

that we build our entire lives upon. Yet if those

beliefs don’t support who you feel you’re truly

meant to be, how can you expect to feel aligned

while living by them?

Organizational psychologist Dr. Tasha Eurich

found that while 95% of people think they’re

self-aware, only 10–15% actually are. That gap

between how we think we show up and how

we actually show up? That’s where anxiety,

stress and self-doubt often live. And in that

hat’s more than a startling realization,

it’s a soul-level wake-up call.

In times like these that for many feel

very socially, economically, emotionally

uncertain, one of the most powerful choices

you can make is to come back to you.

It’s important to understand that this isn’t

just about mindset or personal development.

It’s about resilience in the face of external

challenges, and what you have control over.

In times when everything feels uncertain, the

power of aligning with who you are becomes

the antidote. Your authenticity can become

your internal safety net; a stabilizing force when

the world feels anything but stable.

More Than a Buzzword

You might feel that authenticity is an overused

word. It has been among the top searched

words of the year online the last few years. But

just because it’s used a lot, does not make it a

hollow subject.

Studies show that an average of 50% of adults report they

aren’t living in alignment with their true selves.