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The Women

Balinese Doors

Behind

utu would sweep around my home with quick, rhythmic

strokes as she sang like an angel alongside Balinese music

playing from her phone. Her smile never hinted at the war

she was fighting inside.

There’s an underbelly to the world of women in Bali - as in most

cultures. On the surface, everything can look so beautiful, soft,

and nurturing. But spend enough time immersed in any culture

and you’ll soon discover the true depths and challenges women

face, especially in strong hierarchical systems. The legacy of

tradition can soothe the soul, but it can also suppress and derail

life’s possibilities.

I’ve never been a good tourist. Unlike those chasing sunsets and

smoothie bowls, I’ve always chased something else: stories. And

Bali, in all its beauty, holds some of the most complex ones -

especially in the lives of women.

Travel has continuously transformed my life. It’s been the most

important education I’ve received, hands down. At sixteen, I got my

first taste of cultural immersion as an exchange student in Sweden.

That year changed the trajectory of my life. Living and learning

through different cultures not only expands your worldview - it

humbles and humanizes you.

Bali is no different. In fact, what I love most about living here is

that nothing stays the same. Transformation is in action every day.

At any moment, something unexpected will unfold that makes

Four times a week...